Real Life Mama: Now or never time

‘Twas the night before Christmas when all through the house,

My kids were still not asleep, I mean, why would they start now?

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After an hour of one more show, pleads and pottying, the kids finally went down.

So we tiptoed out of their room careful to not make a sound

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Then a pop of the cork of a much-deserved night cap,

I finally sat down in the living room to wrap

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I sent Daddy to get all the presents hid downstairs,

And after five trips I thought I heard him mumbling some swears.

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Next year, I will not go overboard, I thought,

As I found two more bags of things I forgot.

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The room was full of packages from many different kids’ stores.

And my back already ached from sitting on the floor.

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But I will fight through it, I must! Today is the deadline.

How do other parents get it done before now? Where do they find the time?

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From work, to shopping, to Christmas festivities,

I barely had the chance to get out my nativity.

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Oh, the stockings were hung at one time by the stairs.

But the baby pulled them down and there’s still a missing push pin somewhere.

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The pre-lit tree had been decorated with ornaments and, of course, more lights.

Because I swear those pre lit things never last more than a few nights.

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But it’s now or never time — I’ve waited until the last minute.

And no matter what, I just have to finish.

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Away I went wrapping — to Daddy, to Mommy, to Reagan, to May,

To GG, to MawMaw, to Brandy, to Bray.

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When all of a sudden down the hall I heard a creak,

And I immediately stopped as I saw a 2-year-old about to sneak a peek.

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Away to the couch I flew like a flash,

Snatched up a blanket and tried to covered our stash.

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With sleep in her eyes and a soft little whine,

She asked me to sleep with her just one more time.

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So back to the bedroom I hurried her along,

Because there was still so much to do before the dawn.

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I sang softly to her and rubbed her sweet face,

and truly tried to enjoy the moments in her embrace.

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But in the back of mind I knew how much I had left to do.

And prayed that just this one night she would actually sleep through.

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Then I glanced at her laying so peaceful and innocent,

and I forgot about all of my wrapping for a minute.

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Her tiny little nose, those beautiful eyelashes where her lids meet.

Those sweet little hands folded up by her cheek

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A baby no more, “practically a grown up” she’s told me,

Let’s slow down sweet child you’re not even 3

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But she is the reason — both her and her sister,

That I go through hoops to make it perfect each winter.

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I needed to step back, look around, and be thankful —

For not the gifts, but these sweet babies that I am ever so grateful.

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After a few more kisses I snuck out once again

And realized it was already a quarter past 10.

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History has taught me that was the first wake up but wouldn’t be the last.

If I was going to get this done, I’d have to move fast.

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I got to wrapping much quicker with less time to spare —

Really, they don’t care about the appearance — they want what’s in there.

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Another wake up, another escape,

More hiding, more wrapping and finally a break.

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It’s not perfect, but hey, it will have to do.

After all, it is already half past 2.

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Now to clean up and remove all the evidence that I actually did it all —

Which is really such a crock

But I guess that’s society’s call.

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A few quick bites of cookies, a swig of some milk,

And finally it was time for bed myself.

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As I crawled into bed after I turned out the light,

I thought Merry Chri- “Mom, can I sleep with you tonight?”

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This time it’s the 4-year-old, how could I say no?

So I moved closer to Daddy and off to dreamland we’d go.

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Ha! Or so I thought, then I heard two more little feet.

Climb on in, sweetie. After all, Santa really doesn’t sleep.

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So many things to do, but snuggles beckon.
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By Sarah Shrader

Guest columnist

Sarah (Pitson) Shrader was born and raised in Lima. She is a Lima Central Catholic and Tiffin University graduate. Sarah is a full-time working mama who enjoys writing about her somewhat crazy, always adventurous life as a mother. She lives in Bath Township with her husband, Paul, and their daughters, her writing inspirations, Maylie and Reagan.